I read an article today in Yahoo Finance "Getting Rich is Contagious--So Catch the Bug." How true it is. Why do all the important articles come out about 20 years after I need to read them?
Not that it is not common sense. But tell that to a 20 something.
For me, I never had money troubles growing up or in college, thanks to my parents who were good providers.
I have always thought, and this article confirms it for me, that I got into some bad habits with money when I was in my 20s. I had always thought that it seemed like an excuse though to blame it on that.
But the Yahoo article points out that the money contagion is like the fat contagion that has recently been discussed in the news. Hang around with fat friends and you may get fat. (This has been a problem for me in the past too--when I am with my overweight friends, I feel thin and am more likely to overeat).
Likewise, you pick up money habits from those you hang around with. If all you have is broke friends, being broke seems like the norm, and you are more likely to be broke too. If you are around thrifty or investment minded friends, then you are more likely to be that way.
When I was in my 20s, I ran around with a lot of people who had bad money habits. They used plastic all the time and didn't have a good source of income. I had a good source of income, but they wheedled me into doing things I couldn't afford. Of course I could have said no, but they were my friends. They were older than me and I looked up to them. I was a dummy!
Of course I have known better for a long time, and in recent years have actually done better. I still have too much debt, but I did cut up my credit cards a couple of years ago. And I am much better with watching my money and not spending friviously.
I think the main problem is that when you develop a habit in your 20s, you are still impressionable, and it is hard to shake. I know--it has been hard for me to shake it. But I am shaking it, and I am more careful to not get into lockstep with those around me, unless it is a good habit!
